Alphonse, That Is Not OK to Do!
#1 of 4 in Natalie and Alphonse Series
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What’s inside...
Brother and sister monsters, Natalie and Alphonse, mostly enjoy each other's company as they engage in activities like naming pigeons and bouncing things off bunk beds. However, sibling rivalry ensues when Natalie catches Alphonse eating her most favorite book. The story, beautifully illustrated by Daisy in bold screen-print, explores the ups and downs of sibling relationships, ending with the siblings making up in spectacular style. This warm and witty story, from the creator of The Girl with the Parrot on Her Head, will charm readers of all ages.
Character compass
Natalie
Alphonse
Discussion points
How did Alphonse's actions make Natalie feel, and why do you think that is?
What could Alphonse have done differently when he felt upset?
Why is it important to respect other people's things?
How did Natalie and Alphonse resolve their conflict?
What does this story teach us about getting along with our siblings or friends?
Tip: Role play these questions
Start by asking open-ended questions about the characters' feelings and actions to help your child connect emotionally with the story.
Encourage your child to think about personal experiences that relate to the book’s themes, such as sharing or handling disagreements.
Discuss the resolution of the story and ask your child how they might have handled a similar situation.
Highlight the importance of empathy by discussing how understanding others' feelings can help resolve conflicts.
Use the story as a springboard to discuss family values about respect and cooperation.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Respecting personal boundaries
Explanation: Alphonse learns the importance of respecting his sister Natalie's personal space and possessions when he destroys her artwork.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this lesson by understanding the importance of asking permission before using someone else's belongings.
Example Lesson: Managing emotions
Explanation: Natalie becomes upset after Alphonse ruins her drawing, but the siblings learn to manage their emotions and reconcile.
Real-World Application: This teaches children the importance of expressing feelings in a healthy way and resolving conflicts peacefully.
Example Lesson: Creativity and collaboration
Explanation: After the initial conflict, Alphonse and Natalie use their imagination and creativity to make a new drawing together.
Real-World Application: Encourages children to collaborate with others in creative projects and find constructive solutions to problems.
Example Lesson: Forgiveness
Explanation: Natalie forgives Alphonse after he apologizes, showing the healing power of forgiveness.
Real-World Application: This can help children understand the importance of forgiving others and the positive impact it has on relationships.
Example Lesson: Importance of communication
Explanation: The story highlights how the siblings' relationship improves when they communicate openly about their feelings and ideas.
Real-World Application: Children learn the value of expressing themselves clearly and listening to others, which is essential in all relationships.