Behaviour Matters: Elephant Learns to Share - A book about sharing
Behaviour Matters Series
What’s inside...
This book is part of the 'Behaviour Matters' series, which is designed to help young children understand the importance of appropriate behaviors. In 'Elephant Learns to Share,' children are introduced to a young elephant who discovers the value of sharing with others. Through engaging storytelling and charming illustrations, the book teaches a valuable lesson on how sharing can lead to friendship and better social interactions. This new series of picture books provide a great introduction to discussing emotions for preschoolers. Each book in this series is perfect for talking about emotions, boosting self-esteem, and reinforcing good behavior for preschoolers. This vibrant set with illustrated animals is designed for sharing in a classroom, or at home, with key discussion words that pop in bold type.
Series reading
Non-Sequential
Age
4-7
Length
32 pages
Text complexity
Discussion points
How did Elephant feel when he didn't want to share his toys?
What changed in Elephant's behavior when he started sharing?
Can you think of a time when you shared something and it made you happy?
Why is it important to share with others?
How do you think your friends feel when you share with them?
Tip: Role play these questions
While reading, point out the expressions on Elephant’s face as his emotions change, helping your child connect the emotions with the act of sharing.
Relate the story to your child’s experiences by discussing similar situations where they had to share, and how it felt.
Encourage your child to think about how their actions affect others, reinforcing empathy and kindness.
Use examples from the book to highlight the positive outcomes of sharing, like making friends and having fun together.
After reading, engage in a sharing activity, like sharing a snack or a game, to put the book’s lessons into practice.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: The importance of sharing
Explanation: The story features Elephant who learns the value of sharing his toys with friends, realizing that playing together is more fun than playing alone.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this lesson by sharing their own toys or snacks with classmates, fostering a sense of community and cooperation.
Example Lesson: Understanding feelings
Explanation: Elephant experiences both the sadness of isolation and the joy of inclusion through the act of sharing, teaching readers about empathetic understanding.
Real-World Application: This can help children recognize and respect the emotions of others in school or play settings, encouraging empathic interactions.
Example Lesson: Resolving conflicts
Explanation: The book demonstrates peaceful solutions and dialogue as means to resolve disagreements over toys, which can often be a point of conflict among young children.
Real-World Application: Children can remember these conflict-resolution techniques during disputes to foster peaceful and constructive outcomes.
Example Lesson: Developing social skills
Explanation: Through sharing, Elephant builds stronger relationships with his peers, illustrating the role of give-and-take in friendships.
Real-World Application: This teaches children the importance of cooperative behavior and its impact on forming and maintaining friendships.
Example Lesson: Consequences of actions
Explanation: Elephant's initial choice not to share leads to loneliness, while his decision to share results in happiness and camaraderie, showing children that their actions lead to direct consequences.
Real-World Application: Kids can learn to foresee the impact of their behavior on their own emotional well-being and on others around them.