Best Ted and Ben
What’s inside...
The 'Best Ted and Ben' book by Mandy Sargent is a heartwarming tale of friendship and adventure. It follows the story of two best friends, Ted and Ben, as they navigate the ups and downs of their unique bond. Through a series of engaging events, they learn valuable life lessons about trust, loyalty, and the power of teamwork. This charming narrative is filled with humor, emotion, and memorable characters, making it an enjoyable read for audiences of all ages. Ben and best Ted had always been best friends. Ben took best Ted everywhere with him. Best Ted was very special and not really a Teddy. He was really a cuddly grey elephant. Ben loved him with all his heart and always looked after him. Best Ted also loved Ben and was always there when Ben needed him.
Series reading
Non-Sequential
Age
4-8
Length
40 pages
Text complexity
Discussion points
What do you think makes Ted and Ben's friendship special?
How do you think Ted felt when Ben helped him? Have you ever felt the same way?
What would you do if you were in Ted's place in the story?
Can you think of a time when you helped a friend like Ben helped Ted?
What do you think is the most important lesson Ted and Ben learned?
Tip: Role play these questions
While reading, point out expressions and actions of Ted and Ben to explore their emotions and the impact of their actions.
Ask your child to predict what might happen next at various points in the story to develop their anticipation and analytical skills.
Relate the story's scenarios to your child’s real-life experiences to make the discussion more personal and memorable.
Encourage your child to draw a scene from the book, which can later serve as a prompt to discuss the story’s themes further.
After finishing the book, ask your child how they might act differently in their friendships inspired by Ted and Ben's story.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: The importance of sharing
Explanation: In 'Best Ted and Ben,' Ted learns to share his toys with his friend Ben, fostering a stronger friendship.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this lesson by sharing their own toys or belongings with friends, which can help build stronger bonds and teach them the value of generosity.
Example Lesson: Understanding and managing emotions
Explanation: Ben feels upset when Ted initially refuses to share, but they learn to express their feelings and resolve the conflict.
Real-World Application: This lesson helps children understand that it's okay to feel upset and teaches them constructive ways to express and manage their emotions in similar situations.
Example Lesson: The value of empathy
Explanation: Through their interactions, Ted begins to understand how his actions affect Ben, leading to a more empathetic view towards his friend’s feelings.
Real-World Application: Children learn the importance of considering others' feelings and perspectives, fostering empathy and social awareness in their everyday interactions.
Example Lesson: Problem-solving together
Explanation: The story showcases Ted and Ben working together to find a solution that makes them both happy, highlighting teamwork.
Real-World Application: This encourages children to think about how they can collaborate with others to solve conflicts and challenges they face with peers.