Big Sister, I Need You
#2 of 2 in Family Bonds Series
What’s inside...
Big sisters are very important. This story shares how important a big sister is from the eyes of her new baby sibling. From the moment the new baby arrives home from the hospital, through their many learnings and adventures, 'Big Sister, I Need You' highlights the many ways that big sisters help shape the lives of their younger siblings.
Discussion points
How do you think the big sister felt when her little brother asked for help?
What are some ways the big sister showed kindness to her brother?
Can you think of a time when you helped someone? How did it make you feel?
Why is it important to help our family members?
How can you be a good sibling or friend to someone today?
Tip: Role play these questions
Use personal anecdotes about sibling relationships or helping others to make connections to the story.
Encourage your child to express their feelings about the characters' actions and relate them to their own experiences.
Praise your child's insights and contributions to the discussion to foster a positive conversational environment.
Ask follow-up questions based on your child's responses to encourage deeper thinking and understanding.
Relate the story's themes to real-life situations your child may face, helping them apply the lessons learned.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Empathy and Understanding
Explanation: In 'Big Sister, I Need You', the big sister character consistently demonstrates empathy by attending to her younger sibling’s feelings and needs.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this lesson by recognizing emotions in classmates and siblings, leading to more nurturing relationships.
Example Lesson: Responsibility
Explanation: The story illustrates how the elder sibling takes on the role of a caregiver, guiding and protecting the younger one.
Real-World Application: This encourages children to embrace responsibilities at home or in school, helping them grow into dependable individuals.
Example Lesson: Conflict Resolution
Explanation: The book presents scenarios where the siblings disagree but ultimately find a way to resolve their conflicts amicably.
Real-World Application: Children learn to negotiate and solve disputes with peers, which is a crucial skill for social interaction.
Example Lesson: Sharing and Generosity
Explanation: Throughout the book, the sharing of toys, time, and attention between siblings is highlighted as a key theme.
Real-World Application: This teaches children the importance of sharing with others, fostering a sense of generosity and community.
Example Lesson: Family Bonding
Explanation: The interactions in the story emphasize the strength of family ties and the support that siblings can offer each other.
Real-World Application: Children are encouraged to value and invest in their family relationships, understanding the importance of a supportive home environment.