Call Me Max
#1 in Max and Friends Series
What’s inside...
When Max starts school, the teacher hesitates to call out the name on the attendance sheet. Something doesn't seem to fit. Max lets her know the name he wants to be called by--a boy's name. This begins Max's journey as he makes new friends and reveals his feelings about his identity to his parents. Written with warmth and sensitivity by trans writer Kyle Lukoff, this book is a sweet and age-appropriate introduction to what it means to be transgender.
Character compass
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Discussion points
How did Max feel when he introduced himself with his new name? How would you feel in his situation?
Why is it important to respect and use the names that people choose for themselves?
What are some ways Max's friends supported him? How can you support your friends in similar ways?
How do you think Max's teacher could have handled the situation differently to make him feel more comfortable?
What did you learn about being true to yourself from Max's story?
Tip: Role play these questions
Before reading the book, ask your child what they know about names and why they think names are important. This helps set the stage for the themes explored in the story.
While reading, pause at key moments to ask your child how they think Max is feeling. Encourage them to express empathy and relate those feelings to their own experiences.
After reading, discuss with your child the importance of accepting everyone for who they are. Highlight the value of diversity and being inclusive.
Encourage your child to think of a time when they had to stand up for themselves or a friend. Discuss the outcomes and feelings associated with those actions.
Use the story as an opportunity to reinforce the concept that everyone deserves to be treated with kindness and respect, no matter their background or personal choices.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Understanding and accepting personal identity
Explanation: The protagonist, Max, shares his journey of self-realization and coming out as transgender with his peers and family, promoting self-acceptance.
Real-World Application: Children can learn the importance of accepting themselves and others, fostering an inclusive environment at school and in social settings.
Example Lesson: Empathy and kindness
Explanation: As Max expresses his true identity, his friends and teacher show support and kindness, illustrating how empathy is essential in friendships.
Real-World Application: This encourages children to be supportive and kind towards friends who might be different from them, enhancing social harmony.
Example Lesson: Courage in self-expression
Explanation: Max openly communicates his feelings and identity despite fears, showing bravery in expressing one’s true self.
Real-World Application: Children are encouraged to express their own feelings and identities, understanding that it's okay to be themselves.
Example Lesson: Respect for diversity
Explanation: The book portrays various reactions from different characters, teaching that everyone is unique and deserves respect.
Real-World Application: This lesson can help children appreciate diversity in their communities and learn to respect each individual’s unique traits and choices.