Eloise Will Not Say Please
illustrations by
What’s inside...
Eloise will not say please! But can she learn to use her manners? Find out in this silly book.
Age
0-8
Length
25 pages
Text complexity
Discussion points
How do you think Eloise feels when she refuses to say please?
Why is it important to use polite words like 'please' and 'thank you'?
Can you think of a time when you didn't want to say please? What happened?
What are some ways Eloise could have handled her feelings differently?
How do you feel when someone says 'please' to you?
Tip: Role play these questions
Encourage empathy by asking your child to put themselves in Eloise’s shoes and explore her emotions.
Highlight the importance of manners by discussing real-life scenarios where polite words can make a difference.
Use positive reinforcement to commend your child when they express themselves politely during the conversation.
Create a 'politeness challenge' where each family member tries to use polite words as much as possible for a day or week.
Conclude your discussion by summarizing the key lessons from the book and asking your child how they can apply them in their daily life.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: The importance of politeness
Explanation: In 'Eloise Will Not Say Please', Eloise struggles with using polite words, particularly 'please'. Through various scenarios, she learns how her actions affect others.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this lesson by understanding the value of polite words in daily interactions, improving their communication and relationships.
Example Lesson: The consequences of actions
Explanation: The story illustrates how Eloise's refusal to say 'please' initially leads to social difficulties. As she notices how her behavior impacts her friends, she begins to change.
Real-World Application: This lesson teaches children that their actions have effects on others, fostering a sense of responsibility and empathy towards friends and family.
Example Lesson: Learning from mistakes
Explanation: Throughout the book, Eloise makes mistakes but learns from them, particularly seeing the negative outcome of her impolite behavior.
Real-World Application: Children learn that making mistakes is a part of growing up and that they can use these experiences to improve their behavior and decision-making.
Example Lesson: The power of words
Explanation: Eloise’s journey highlights how powerful words can be in shaping relationships and outcomes.
Real-World Application: Children are encouraged to use their words wisely to form positive connections and to express their needs respectfully.