Going Down Home with Daddy
What’s inside...
In this rich and moving celebration of history, culture, and ritual, Kelly Starling Lyons explores the power of family traditions through the story of Lil Alan and his family's visit to Granny's house. There, Lil Alan and his relatives share stories of their ancestors, connect with the land, and pay tribute to their family history. As all the kids prepare their special tributes, Lil Alan struggles to find his. Beautifully illustrated by Daniel Minter, this book is a 2020 Caldecott Honor recipient and delves deep into the significance of heritage and the bonds of a large, multi-generational family.
Series reading
Non-Sequential
Age
4-8
Length
32 pages
Text complexity
Discussion points
How do you think Lil Alan felt when he was trying to find a way to honor his family's heritage? What would you have done in his place?
Why is it important for Lil Alan’s family to gather and share stories about their ancestors?
What traditions does your family have? How do they make you feel connected to your family history?
How does the farm play a role in the family’s history and their sense of belonging?
Can you think of a special object or place that reminds you of your family’s past like the farm does for Lil Alan?
Tip: Role play these questions
Encourage empathy by asking your child how they would feel sharing a tribute to their heritage in front of their family, just like Lil Alan does.
Highlight the importance of family traditions by discussing your own family stories and connecting them with the experiences of Lil Alan and his family.
Facilitate a deeper connection by exploring together any family heirlooms, photos, or places similar to how Lil Alan connects with his family's farm.
Help your child understand the significance of heritage and roots by drawing parallels between their life and the events in the book.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Importance of Family Heritage
Explanation: The story emphasizes the significance of family roots and heritage through the protagonist's journey to his family's farm for a reunion.
Real-World Application: Children can learn to value and explore their own family histories, fostering a sense of identity and belonging.
Example Lesson: Respect and Reverence for Elders
Explanation: Throughout the book, the respect shown to elders is evident as the family shares stories and honors their ancestors.
Real-World Application: Children can be encouraged to listen to stories from older family members and show respect, enriching their understanding of their family's past.
Example Lesson: Expression Through Storytelling
Explanation: The protagonist prepares to share his own story at the family gathering, showcasing the power of personal expression through storytelling.
Real-World Application: Children can be inspired to share their own stories, whether oral or written, enhancing their communication skills and self-confidence.
Example Lesson: Value of Traditions
Explanation: The book highlights the importance of family traditions and the role they play in strengthening family bonds.
Real-World Application: Children can participate in or help create family traditions, understanding their role in maintaining family unity and creating lasting memories.