Goodbye Mom: A Toddler Prep Book
#1 of 27 in Toddler Prep Books Series
What’s inside...
A simple and effective approach for easing separation anxiety helps young children cope with being away from loved ones by using Toddler Prep Books. These books illustrate realistic scenarios to prepare children for routine goodbyes and extended absences, aiding their understanding that caregivers always return. Created by Amy and Aaron Pittman, the series draws from developmental psychology research and the founders' personal experiences, ensuring children connect expectations with reality for life's new experiences.
Discussion points
How did the characters in the story feel when saying goodbye? Can you describe a time you felt the same way?
What are some ways the characters said goodbye that made them feel better? Which way would you like to try?
Why do you think goodbyes are important, even if they make us sad sometimes?
Can you think of something special we can do to remember someone when we say goodbye?
Tip: Role play these questions
While discussing the book, try matching your child's emotions with your expressions to help them open up about their feelings.
Encourage your child to draw a picture of a goodbye they remember, using elements from the book to guide their creativity.
Use the story’s context to teach your child about empathy by asking how they think the characters felt during different parts of the book.
Revisit the book's theme after experiencing a 'goodbye' scenario in real life to reinforce the coping strategies discussed.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Understanding Emotions
Explanation: The book illustrates the main character's emotional journey of saying goodbye to his mother, embodying feelings of sadness, fear, and eventual acceptance.
Real-World Application: Children can learn to identify and express their emotions more clearly, especially in situations involving separation or change.
Example Lesson: Coping with Separation
Explanation: Through the story, the character learns different coping mechanisms when his mother leaves, such as engaging in activities and remembering her reassuring words.
Real-World Application: This can help children develop resilience and independence when they experience similar separations, such as the first day of school or staying with a caregiver.
Example Lesson: Importance of Routine
Explanation: As the toddler in the story follows a routine while his mother is away, it highlights how routines can provide comfort and stability.
Real-World Application: Children can better adapt to changes and manage their own daily routines, promoting a sense of security and self-discipline.
Example Lesson: Expressing Needs and Desires
Explanation: The protagonist learns to verbally express his needs and connect with other caregivers for support.
Real-World Application: This lesson encourages children to communicate openly about their needs, fostering better relationships with adults and peers.
Example Lesson: Acceptance of New Experiences
Explanation: By the end of the book, the child learns to accept his mom’s temporary departure as a part of life and looks forward to her return.
Real-World Application: It teaches children to embrace new experiences and changes in life, viewing them as opportunities for growth.