It's My Body
It's a Girl Thing Series
What’s inside...
This brightly coloured, illustrated book teaches children about body privacy, explaining why private parts should be kept private. Children will learn that their body belongs to them and that they have the right to say 'no' to any unwanted touch. The book also addresses inappropriate behavior, the importance of speaking up if uncomfortable, and the topic of secrets and when they shouldn't be kept. It additionally covers respecting boundaries, being mindful of those who may be sensitive to touch such as children with autism or anxiety, and how to handle bullying like pinching or kicking. Written by Louise Spilsbury, the book clearly explains the significance of body privacy without scaremongering.
Series reading
Non-Sequential
Age
5-7
Length
32 pages
Text complexity
Discussion points
How did the book make you feel about saying 'no' when you're uncomfortable?
Why is it important to have personal boundaries?
Can you think of a time when you felt good about setting your own boundaries?
What are some ways you can show respect for other people's boundaries?
How can you ask for help if someone doesn’t respect your boundaries?
Tip: Role play these questions
Start by sharing your own feelings about personal boundaries to create an open and understanding atmosphere.
Encourage your child to express their thoughts without interruption, validating their feelings and perspectives.
Use examples from the book to illustrate points, making it easier for your child to connect concepts with real-life situations.
Empower them by discussing real actionable steps they can take to assert their boundaries.
Reiterate the importance of respecting others' boundaries as well, fostering empathy and mutual respect.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Understanding Personal Boundaries
Explanation: The book introduces the concept of personal space and the importance of respecting it through simple, relatable scenarios for children.
Real-World Application: Children learn to seek permission before entering someone else’s personal space, fostering respectful interactions from an early age.
Example Lesson: Recognizing Safe Touch
Explanation: Through engaging narrative and examples, the book delineates between safe and unsafe touches, empowering children to differentiate and react appropriately.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this understanding in their daily interactions by identifying inappropriate touches and knowing when to report them to a trusted adult.
Example Lesson: Assertiveness in Communication
Explanation: The book encourages children to express their comfort or discomfort clearly and assertively, using age-appropriate language.
Real-World Application: This lesson helps children become confident in voicing their feelings and boundaries in various situations, be it at home, school, or in public places.
Example Lesson: Understanding Body Ownership
Explanation: The book reinforces that a child's body belongs to them and them alone, highlighting the importance of autonomy over one’s body.
Real-World Application: This empowers children to make decisions about their bodies, such as who can touch them and in what way, thus enhancing their personal safety and self-respect.