It's Not That 'Big a Deal': A Simple & Funny Reminder About What Matters Most
What’s inside...
Life with little kids is an adventure filled with unexpected moments! We've all had those times when we overreacted to our kids' little mishaps, only to realize later that they weren't such a big deal after all. In the chaos of parenting and the whirlwind of daily life, it's easy to lose sight of what truly matters. Enter It's Not That 'Big a Deal'. This delightful book is a gentle and humorous reminder that even when things go awry, love and understanding prevail. From forgotten flushes to unfinished plates, the pages are adorned with beautiful illustrations that honestly depict our less-than-perfect reactions to these situations. Prepare to find yourself embracing a newfound calmness, as the mantra 'It's not that big a deal' becomes your go-to response when life's little surprises happen in your home. Let this book be a source of comfort, laughter, and a reminder to cherish the joyous imperfections that come with raising young children. It's Not That 'Big a Deal' is not only a must-have addition to your own family's library, but also makes a perfect gift for new parents, baby showers, or anyone navigating the wonderful chaos of life with young children.
Series reading
Non-Sequential
Age
1-5
Length
28 pages
Text complexity
Discussion points
What part of the story made you laugh the most, and why?
Can you think of a time when something small seemed like a big deal to you?
How did the characters in the book figure out what really matters?
What do you think is the most important thing to remember from this story?
How would you help a friend who is upset about something small?
Tip: Role play these questions
Begin the conversation by sharing a personal anecdote about a time you made a big deal out of something small, to help your child feel more comfortable sharing.
Encourage your child to express their feelings about the story, and validate their feelings, whether they found it funny, silly, or even confusing.
Use the characters' experiences in the book to relate to real-life situations your child might encounter, enhancing their understanding and empathy.
Praise your child for their insights and contributions to the discussion, fostering a positive and open environment for communication.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Understanding Perspective
Explanation: The story uses humor and relatable scenarios to demonstrate how different situations can be viewed from various perspectives.
Real-World Application: Children can learn to consider others' viewpoints in conflicts or misunderstandings, promoting empathy and communication.
Example Lesson: Importance of Prioritization
Explanation: Characters in the book face dilemmas that teach them to evaluate what truly matters most in a situation.
Real-World Application: This lesson can help children make thoughtful decisions about how to spend their time and what to focus on during their daily activities.
Example Lesson: Stress Management
Explanation: Through light-hearted storytelling, the book shows characters navigating stressful situations by focusing on what’s important and letting go of minor worries.
Real-World Application: Children can adopt these strategies to cope with everyday stresses, such as schoolwork or social interactions.
Example Lesson: Value of Humor
Explanation: The book highlights how humor can be a powerful tool for dealing with life’s challenges, easing tensions and creating bonds.
Real-World Application: This encourages children to use humor to navigate difficulties and improve their interpersonal relationships.