Just One of Those Days
#3 in Bear Family Series
on Goodreads (93)
What’s inside...
The story follows the Bear family as they experience a series of unfortunate, relatable events that can turn an ordinary day into a challenging one. From waking up with a cold to dealing with various mishaps throughout the day, it's simply 'just one of those days' for the Bear family. Despite the challenges, they find comfort in being together and end the day on a positive note. On a particular day, they wake up late, face rain, and encounter minor accidents at work. However, they muddle through with cheer and love, and there's even a surprise for Baby Bear at the end of the day. With Jill Murphy's cozy illustrations and rhythmic repetition, this warm story about a family day becomes an instant classic, resonating with parents and children everywhere.
Discussion points
How do you think the Bear family felt when everything was going wrong?
What are some ways the Bear family could have made their day better?
Can you remember a time when you had a bad day? What helped you feel better?
Why is it important to help each other when things aren't going well?
How did the story end and what can we learn from it?
Tip: Role play these questions
Validate your child's feelings by sharing a personal story of a difficult day you've had, creating a relatable experience.
Ask your child to draw or describe their worst day and discuss what could make it better, harnessing creativity and solution-oriented thinking.
Use a calm and soothing voice to discuss the story's challenges, making it a safe space for your child to express their emotions.
Encourage your child to think of ways to help someone having a bad day, fostering empathy and kindness.
Finish your discussion with a positive note on how bad days can turn around, ensuring your child retains an optimistic outlook.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Empathy and Understanding
Explanation: The story illustrates the small mishaps and frustrations each member of the Bear family faces, promoting an understanding of others' feelings.
Real-World Application: Children learn to recognize emotions and situations that may upset others, fostering empathetic interactions in school and at home.
Example Lesson: Resilience in facing everyday challenges
Explanation: Despite having a bad day, the Bear family manages to cope and find comfort in togetherness, showing resilience.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this by learning to navigate their own bad days and understanding that tough times can be managed with support and a positive outlook.
Example Lesson: Importance of family support
Explanation: The Bears’ mutual support despite individual challenges highlights the strength of family bonds.
Real-World Application: This underscores the value of supporting family members emotionally, teaching children the significance of family during difficult times.
Example Lesson: Communication to resolve issues
Explanation: The family discusses their day and shares their feelings, which helps them bond and lighten their moods.
Real-World Application: Children learn the importance of talking about their feelings and problems, which can help in developing healthy communication skills.