Liar
#5 in Behaviour Matters Series
What’s inside...
This book provides children with guidance on how to cope with common behavioral issues such as cheating, lying, and stealing through simple stories and thought-provoking questions. It aims to help children understand the impact of anti-social behavior on themselves and others, and includes discussion sections to reduce anxiety and encourage honesty. The book also features stories of young children who fabricate exaggerated stories, which serve as a basis for discussions about the consequences of lying.
Discussion points
What did you think about the main character's choice to lie? How do you think they felt afterward?
Can you think of a time when telling the truth was difficult? What did you do?
How did the lies in the story affect the other characters? What were the consequences?
Why is it important to be honest? How does it affect our relationships with others?
What would you do if you were in a similar situation as the main character?
Tip: Role play these questions
Start by sharing your own experiences with honesty and the impact of lies, making it a safe space for open dialogue. Encourage your child to relate the story to their personal experiences, fostering empathy and understanding. Reinforce the value of trust and integrity, highlighting how the story can teach us about the importance of honesty in real life. Lastly, praise your child for sharing their thoughts and feelings, boosting their confidence in discussing complex topics.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Honesty is the best policy
Explanation: In 'Liar', the protagonist learns the hard way that lying can lead to mistrust and complicated situations.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this lesson by practicing truthfulness in their daily interactions, fostering trust and clear communication with peers and adults.
Example Lesson: Consequences of actions
Explanation: The book illustrates how each action, such as lying, has consequences that can affect oneself and others.
Real-World Application: This lesson teaches children to think before they act and to consider the possible effects their actions might have on their surroundings.
Example Lesson: Importance of forgiveness
Explanation: After the truth comes out, the story shows how characters deal with mistakes and the power of forgiveness.
Real-World Application: Children learn the value of forgiving others and themselves, which can lead to healing and better relationships.
Example Lesson: Building trust
Explanation: The book highlights the challenges in rebuilding trust once it's broken.
Real-World Application: This teaches children the importance of maintaining integrity to build and sustain trustworthy relationships.
Example Lesson: Learning from mistakes
Explanation: The protagonist’s journey demonstrates that mistakes are opportunities for personal growth and understanding.
Real-World Application: Children are encouraged to view their mistakes as learning experiences, promoting resilience and personal development.