Mama says No!
#1 of 3 in Mama says Series
What’s inside...
Autumn, a preschool-age girl, is learning everyday how to do things on her own and become more independent. She wants to do it all by herself but sometimes it is difficult and she can be overcome by emotions. Mama is around to help her and make sure she is empowered and knows all her emotions are normal and help her discover them all.
Discussion points
Why do you think Mama says 'No!' in the story? How does it make the character feel?
Can you think of a time when you wanted to do something, but were told 'No'? How did you react?
What are some ways the characters could solve their problems in the story?
How do you think the story would change if Mama said 'Yes!' instead?
What did you learn from this book about listening and following rules?
Tip: Role play these questions
Begin by reading the book together, allowing your child to express their initial reactions to the story. Encourage them to put themselves in the character's shoes and discuss different emotions they observe. Utilize the open-ended questions to guide a deeper dialogue about the importance of rules and listening. Reinforce the discussion by relating the book's scenarios to real-life situations your child might encounter, emphasizing learning from the characters' experiences.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Understanding Boundaries
Explanation: In 'Mama says No!', the child learns to understand and respect the boundaries set by their mother, recognizing that rules are often for their own safety and well-being.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this lesson by learning to respect rules at home, school, and in public places, understanding that these guidelines are meant to protect and guide them.
Example Lesson: Communication Skills
Explanation: Throughout the book, the dialogue between the child and Mama highlights the importance of clear communication and asking questions when in doubt about why certain rules are in place.
Real-World Application: This lesson helps children to ask questions and express their feelings appropriately in various situations, thereby enhancing their communication skills with peers and adults.
Example Lesson: Patience
Explanation: The child in the story learns the value of patience through scenarios where immediate desires are not met, teaching them to wait and understand timing.
Real-World Application: Children learning this lesson can practice patience when they have to wait their turn while playing games or sharing toys with others, helping them to manage frustration and develop social skills.
Example Lesson: Problem Solving
Explanation: As the child navigates the reasons behind their mother's decisions, they learn to think critically and solve problems about why certain actions are allowed or restricted.
Real-World Application: This encourages children to think critically and independently when faced with challenges, finding constructive solutions rather than giving up or acting out.