Perfectly Norman
Big Bright Feelings Series
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What’s inside...
Norman had always been perfectly normal until he grew a pair of wings. While enjoying his newfound ability to fly, he worries about his parents' and others' reactions. Norman hides his wings under a coat, but finds it difficult to conceal what makes him different. The story highlights the struggles and importance of embracing one's individuality, with beautiful illustrations in a minimal palette.
Series reading
Non-Sequential
Age
3-6
Length
32 pages
Text complexity
Discussion points
How do you think Norman felt when he first discovered his wings?
What do you think the wings represent in the story?
Why do you think Norman hid his wings under a big yellow coat?
How did Norman's feelings change from the beginning of the book to the end?
Can you think of a time when you were scared to show something about yourself? How did you handle it?
Tip: Role play these questions
Encourage your child to express their opinions about the story, affirming their thoughts and feelings.
Relate the story to personal experiences or feelings, making connections that resonate with your child.
Ask follow-up questions based on your child's responses to keep them engaged and thinking deeper about the themes.
Praise your child for their insights and encourage them to think about what they might do in a similar situation as Norman.
Discuss the importance of embracing and celebrating our unique qualities, just like Norman learns to do.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Embracing Individuality
Explanation: In 'Perfectly Norman', Norman feels different when he grows wings unexpectedly. Throughout the story, he learns to embrace his uniqueness rather than hiding it.
Real-World Application: Children can learn the value of embracing their unique qualities and expressing their true selves, rather than conforming to societal expectations.
Example Lesson: Overcoming Fear
Explanation: Norman initially hides his wings due to fear of what others will think. Eventually, he overcomes this fear and reveals his wings to his parents, who accept him lovingly.
Real-World Application: This encourages children to face their fears, especially about being different or standing out, reassuring them that acceptance starts with self-acceptance.
Example Lesson: The Power of Honesty
Explanation: By being honest with his parents about his wings, Norman experiences relief and acceptance. This honesty strengthens his relationship with his parents.
Real-World Application: Children are encouraged to practice honesty in their daily interactions and to trust in the support system their family provides.
Example Lesson: Acceptance and Unconditional Love
Explanation: Norman’s parents show him unconditional love and acceptance when they see his wings, reinforcing that their love is not based on his physical appearance.
Real-World Application: This teaches children the importance of accepting others despite differences, promoting empathy and understanding in various social situations.