Stop Picking on Me: A First Look at Bullying
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This book is designed to help children understand the impact of bullying and how to stop it. It follows the story of a young girl who is being bullied at school and how she learns to stand up for herself and find support from her friends and family. The book includes practical tips and strategies for children who are being bullied, as well as information for parents and teachers on how to help their children deal with bullying. The author, Pat Thomas, is a well-known children's author and illustrator who has written numerous books on social issues for young children.
Series reading
Non-Sequential
Age
5-6
Length
32 pages
Text complexity
Discussion points
How did you feel when you read about the different ways children were being bullied?
Can you think of a time when someone was kind to you when you felt sad or hurt?
What are some ways we can help friends who are being picked on?
Why do you think it's important to tell an adult if we see someone being bullied?
What can we do to make sure everyone feels safe and happy at school?
Tip: Role play these questions
Validate your child's feelings and experiences by actively listening and showing empathy during discussions.
Encourage your child to express their thoughts and emotions about the book by using open-ended questions.
Discuss personal experiences with bullying or observing bullying, and explore different ways of handling such situations.
Highlight the importance of kindness and the impact it has on others, relating it back to the scenarios in the book.
Ensure that the conversation remains a safe space for your child to share, helping them to understand that it's okay to talk about difficult topics.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Empathy and Understanding
Explanation: This book teaches children to understand the feelings of others and why bullying is hurtful.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this lesson by being more considerate and kind to their peers, recognizing when someone is upset and offering support.
Example Lesson: The Power of Speaking Up
Explanation: The story encourages kids to speak up against bullying, whether they're the victim or a bystander.
Real-World Application: This encourages children to be proactive in speaking out against unfair treatment, fostering a supportive school environment.
Example Lesson: Resilience and Self-Esteem
Explanation: The narrative focuses on overcoming bullying through personal strength and confidence.
Real-World Application: Children learn to value themselves and develop resilience against negative comments, helping them maintain their self-esteem.
Example Lesson: Seeking Help
Explanation: The book emphasizes the importance of seeking help from adults like teachers or parents when encountering bullying.
Real-World Application: Kids are taught the importance of communicating their problems to trusted adults, ensuring they get the support and guidance needed.