Surrounded by Love: An Open Adoption Story
#1 of 2 in Open Adoption Stories Series
What’s inside...
This modern take on the 'where did you come from' adoption book celebrates open adoption. Through words and illustrations, the characters express the immense amount of love that everyone involved in the process has for the adoptee.
Discussion points
How do you think the main character feels about being in an open adoption?
What are some ways the families show love and support for each other in the story?
Why do you think open adoption is important for the character?
Can you think of a time when you felt supported and loved like the character in the book?
What would you do if you were a friend to someone in an open adoption?
Tip: Role play these questions
Start the conversation by sharing your thoughts on open adoption and its impact. Emphasize the importance of understanding and empathy in diverse family structures. Encourage your child to express their feelings and thoughts openly, and validate their emotions. Use examples from the book to highlight moments of love and support. Discuss the different forms of family structures in a positive light to broaden your child’s understanding of love and acceptance.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Understanding and Accepting Different Family Structures
Explanation: The book portrays a loving and functional open adoption scenario, showing a child being nurtured by both biological and adoptive parents.
Real-World Application: This lesson teaches children that families come in various forms, and that all forms, including adoptive families, deserve respect and recognition.
Example Lesson: Empathy and Emotional Expression
Explanation: Allison Olson delicately explores the emotions of all parties in the adoption process, providing insight into their feelings and perspectives.
Real-World Application: Children learn the importance of understanding and expressing their own emotions, as well as empathizing with others’ feelings, which is crucial in developing emotional intelligence.
Example Lesson: Value of Open Communication
Explanation: The narrative encourages open and honest communication between the child, adoptive parents, and biological parents, illustrating its positive impacts.
Real-World Application: This can help children understand the importance of transparency and honesty in their interactions and relationships, fostering a habit of open communication from an early age.
Example Lesson: Importance of Love and Support
Explanation: The book emphasizes that love is the fundamental base of any familial relationship, regardless of biological ties.
Real-World Application: Children are taught to value and seek supportive, loving relationships and to contribute positively to their familial and friendship circles.