Sweet-Talking Tj
#2 in Stella Etc. Series
What’s inside...
When Stella first sees TJ, he is being attacked by a psycho seagull. Despite the unusual first impression, Stella sees potential in TJ as a mate. They strike up a conversation and Stella is pleased with their connection. However, she later becomes disappointed when TJ ignores her while he is with a group of intimidating, older boys who seem to mock him. Stella is uncertain about the situation, but she is sure of her feelings for TJ and believes he reciprocates them. Stella thinks that perhaps TJ just needs some encouragement and kind words to navigate his social predicaments.
Discussion points
What do you think Tj was feeling when he tried to make new friends?
How did Tj use his words to solve problems in the story?
Can you think of a time when you had to meet new people? How did that make you feel?
What would you do if you were in Tj’s situation at the park?
Why is it important to listen to others, just like Tj learned to do?
Tip: Role play these questions
Start the conversation by sharing a personal story about a time you met someone new, setting a relatable foundation for your child.
Encourage your child to express their feelings about making new friends, and relate those feelings back to Tj’s experiences in the book.
Ask open-ended questions that prompt your child to think critically about the themes of communication and friendship portrayed in the book.
Discuss the outcomes of Tj’s actions and decisions, asking your child what they might have done differently and why.
Praise your child for sharing their thoughts and ideas, reinforcing positive engagement and making the discussion a supportive experience.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Empathy and Understanding
Explanation: In 'Sweet-Talking Tj', the protagonist learns to understand and empathize with peers who seem difficult to deal with initially.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this lesson in their daily interactions by trying to see things from other people's perspectives, promoting harmonious relationships.
Example Lesson: Importance of Communication
Explanation: Throughout the book, Tj learns the importance of expressing his feelings and thoughts rather than keeping them bottled up.
Real-World Application: This encourages children to openly communicate their emotions and thoughts with their friends, family, and teachers to foster better understanding and support.
Example Lesson: Value of Perseverance
Explanation: The character faces challenges but learns the significance of not giving up easily, regardless of the obstacles.
Real-World Application: Kids learn to persist through difficulties whether in schoolwork or personal goals, understanding that resilience is key to overcoming obstacles.
Example Lesson: Resolving Conflicts
Explanation: Tj encounters conflicts but learns strategies for resolution which don’t involve aggression.
Real-World Application: This teaches children effective conflict resolution techniques like dialogue and compromise, vital for peaceful interactions.
Example Lesson: Recognizing and Celebrating Differences
Explanation: Tj learns to appreciate the differences in individuals around him, understanding that diversity is what makes us unique.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this lesson by embracing diverse cultures and traits among their peers, fostering an environment of inclusivity.