The Day Grandma Came to Stay (and Spoilt My Life) (Young bluegum)
#1 in Young Bluegum. Series
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What’s inside...
When Lucy's grandma comes over from Italy to stay, there are lots of problems, especially when Grandma arrives wearing 'witchy black clothes'. Worse still Lucy has to grandma-sit. However, this leads to many adventures and Lucy begins to find pride in her Italian heritage.
Discussion points
How did the main character feel when Grandma came to stay, and can you relate to any of those feelings?
What are some ways the main character and Grandma could have solved their disagreements?
What did the main character learn by the end of the story about relationships and family?
If you could give the main character any advice, what would it be?
Tip: Role play these questions
Encourage your child to express their feelings about the story's events and characters openly. Listen closely to their thoughts and relate them to their personal experiences. Highlight the importance of family and communication, reinforcing that it's okay to feel a range of emotions about changes in life. Use the book's resolution to discuss the value of empathy and understanding between family members.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Embracing change
Explanation: The story demonstrates how the protagonist learns to adapt to the changes caused by Grandma's arrival, which initially disrupts their routine.
Real-World Application: Children can learn to be more adaptable and open to changes in their own lives, whether it's a new sibling, moving to a new place, or adjusting to any new situations.
Example Lesson: Value of family bonds
Explanation: Through various interactions and adventures with Grandma, the protagonist discovers the joy and value of close family relationships.
Real-World Application: This lesson can encourage children to spend more time with their own family members, appreciating and strengthening those bonds.
Example Lesson: Understanding and empathy
Explanation: The protagonist initially resists Grandma's presence but gradually learns to understand and see things from her perspective.
Real-World Application: This can help children develop empathy towards their own family members and peers, encouraging them to consider others' feelings and viewpoints.
Example Lesson: Importance of communication
Explanation: Misunderstandings between the protagonist and Grandma are resolved through open and honest communication.
Real-World Application: Children can learn the importance of expressing their thoughts and feelings clearly to avoid misunderstandings and build stronger relationships.
Example Lesson: Finding joy in simple things
Explanation: Grandma teaches the protagonist to find happiness in simple activities and moments spent together.
Real-World Application: This encourages children to appreciate and find joy in everyday moments and simpler pleasures, fostering a positive outlook.