The Day You Begin
What’s inside...
The Day You Begin is a heartfelt and uplifting book that encourages children to find courage in sharing their own stories and to find connection in the stories of others. It helps children understand that they are not alone in their feelings of otherness, and that it is our individual qualities and experiences that bring us together. National Book Award winner Jacqueline Woodson and two-time Pura Belpre Illustrator Award winner Rafael Lopez have teamed up to create a poignant, yet heartening book about finding courage to connect, even when you feel scared and alone. There will be times when you walk into a room and no one there is quite like you. There are many reasons to feel different. Maybe it's how you look or talk, or where you're from; maybe it's what you eat, or something just as random. It's not easy to take those first steps into a place where nobody really knows you yet, but somehow you do it. Jacqueline Woodson's lyrical text and Rafael Lopez's dazzling art reminds us that we all feel like outsiders sometimes-and how brave it is that we go forth anyway. And that sometimes, when we reach out and begin to share our stories, others will be happy to meet us halfway. Jacqueline Woodson is the 2018-2019 National Ambassador for Young People's Literature.
Age
5-8
Length
32 pages
Text complexity
Character compass
Angelina
Rigoberto
Discussion points
How did the characters feel when they shared their stories? Have you ever felt the same way?
Why do you think it's important to listen to other people’s experiences?
What can we learn from the character’s differences?
How do you think you can help someone who feels left out?
What does the phrase 'The Day You Begin' mean to you?
Tip: Role play these questions
Encourage your child to express their own feelings about times they’ve felt different or alone, relating to the character's experiences.
Highlight the importance of empathy by discussing how understanding others' feelings can change the way we interact with them.
Ask your child to think of ways they can make others feel welcome, drawing parallels with actions taken by characters in the book.
Use examples from the book to show that everyone’s story is unique and valuable.
Reinforce the message that it's okay to make mistakes when trying to make new friends or fit in, just like the characters in the story.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Embracing Diversity
Explanation: The narrative highlights the importance of accepting and celebrating differences. It presents characters from diverse backgrounds sharing their unique stories.
Real-World Application: Children learn to appreciate varied cultures and perspectives, fostering inclusivity in their daily interactions.
Example Lesson: Courage to Share Your Story
Explanation: The book encourages children to speak up about their experiences, even when they feel different or isolated.
Real-World Application: This lesson empowers children to confidently express themselves in school presentations or in conversations, enhancing their communication skills.
Example Lesson: Empathy and Understanding
Explanation: Through its characters, the story teaches children to listen to and empathize with others' experiences and feelings.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this understanding by supporting peers who may feel left out or by helping to bridge gaps between diverse groups at school.
Example Lesson: Overcoming Fear of Rejection
Explanation: The book addresses the common fear of not being accepted by others and the courage it takes to overcome it.
Real-World Application: It encourages children to participate in social activities and new experiences without the fear of rejection, bolstering their self-esteem and social skills.
Example Lesson: Value of Friendship
Explanation: As characters in the book connect through their stories, they form deep bonds, showing the importance of friendship.
Real-World Application: Children learn the significance of building and maintaining friendships, which contributes to their emotional and social development.