The Proudest Blue: A Story of Hijab and Family
#1 of 3 in The Proudest Blue Series
What’s inside...
A powerful, vibrantly illustrated story about the first day of school–and two sisters on one’s first day of hijab–by Olympic medalist and social justice activist Ibtihaj Muhammad. With her new backpack and light-up shoes, Faizah knows the first day of school is going to be special. It’s the start of a brand new year and, best of all, it’s her older sister Asiya’s first day of hijab–a hijab of beautiful blue fabric, like the ocean waving to the sky. But not everyone sees hijab as beautiful, and in the face of hurtful, confusing words, Faizah will find new ways to be strong. Paired with Hatem Aly’s beautiful, whimsical art, Olympic medalist Ibtihaj Muhammad and Morris Award finalist S.K. Ali bring readers an uplifting, universal story of new experiences, the unbreakable bond between siblings, and of being proud of who you are.
Character compass
Faizah
Asiya
Mother
Discussion points
What does the hijab mean to Faizah and how does it make her feel proud?
How does Asiya handle the people who stare or say unkind things about her hijab?
What are some ways the color blue is used in the story, and what might it represent?
Can you think of a time when you were proud of something about yourself or your culture? What was it?
Why do you think the mother tells Faizah, 'Don’t carry around the hurtful words that others say. Drop them. They are not yours to keep. They belong only to those who said them.'? How can you apply this advice in your own life?
Tip: Role play these questions
Encourage your child to make personal connections with the story by sharing your own experiences or observing similar qualities in them, reinforcing the themes of pride and identity.
Validate your child’s feelings about the book by listening attentively and responding thoughtfully to their opinions and thoughts, nurturing a safe environment for expression.
Explore the cultural significance of hijab with your child to extend learning beyond the book, providing them with a broader understanding of different customs and beliefs.
Highlight the courage and strength shown by the characters, and relate it back to challenges your child may face, discussing ways to handle adversities with grace.
After the discussion, suggest drawing or writing a reflection about a personal proud moment or something unique about their own culture to deepen the personal connection and understanding.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Embracing Cultural Diversity
Explanation: The story follows Faizah and her older sister Asiya on Asiya's first day of wearing hijab to school. It showcases their pride in their cultural identity and heritage.
Real-World Application: Children can learn to appreciate and respect diverse cultures and traditions they encounter in their daily interactions, fostering a more inclusive environment.
Example Lesson: Resilience in the face of adversity
Explanation: Asiya faces bullying at school because of her hijab, but she remains confident and proud of her choice. This illustrates the strength of personal conviction and self-worth.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this lesson by standing firm in their beliefs and values, even when faced with challenges or peer pressure.
Example Lesson: Support within the family
Explanation: Faizah admires her sister’s courage and together, they navigate the challenges of the day. This emphasizes the importance of family support and solidarity.
Real-World Application: Children learn the value of relying on family during tough times and the strength that comes from familial bonds.
Example Lesson: Understanding and empathy
Explanation: Faizah learns through her sister’s experiences about the challenges of being different and develops a deeper empathy.
Real-World Application: Children are encouraged to be empathetic towards others' experiences and perspectives, aiding in emotional development and social skills.
Example Lesson: Pride in one’s identity
Explanation: The book highlights the theme of taking pride in one’s cultural and religious identity through Asiya’s pride in her hijab.
Real-World Application: This can inspire children to celebrate their own unique backgrounds and those of others, boosting self-esteem and mutual respect.