The abilities in me: Sibling Loss
The Abilities In Me Series
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What’s inside...
This picture book is dedicated to any child who has lost a sibling. Written in memory of Cerys Paterson and with the support of her family, this book will help children understand they are not alone in their grief and the emotions they may be feeling. This is the 20th book in The abilities in me book series. All proceeds are donated to the charity.
Series reading
Non-Sequential
Age
3-7
Length
28 pages
Text complexity
Discussion points
How do you think the character felt when they lost their sibling?
What are some ways the character remembers and honors their sibling?
Can you think of a time when you felt similar to the character? What helped you feel better?
Why is it important to talk about our feelings, especially during sad times?
What are some ways we can support friends or family members who are going through a tough time like the character did?
Tip: Role play these questions
Before starting the book, explain to your child that it discusses sensitive topics and assure them that it's okay to express any feelings that arise.
Encourage your child to share their thoughts after each chapter to gauge their understanding and emotional state.
Use the questions listed to prompt deeper thinking and emotional connection to the story. Listen attentively to your child’s responses, acknowledging their feelings and providing comfort.
Relate the situations in the book to real-life scenarios to help your child understand the emotions and behaviors of the characters.
After finishing the book, ask your child how they might help a friend or sibling who is experiencing loss, reinforcing empathy and compassionate action.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Understanding and coping with grief
Explanation: Gemma Keir explores the emotional journey of a young girl dealing with the loss of a sibling, providing a sensitive portrayal of grief.
Real-World Application: Children can learn to express their feelings of loss and sorrow, helping them process their emotions in real-life situations of bereavement.
Example Lesson: Empathy towards others' feelings
Explanation: Through Gemma's interactions with her family, the book teaches how to recognize and respect the feelings of others who are also grieving.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this understanding in comforting friends or family members who are experiencing their own losses or difficulties.
Example Lesson: The importance of family support
Explanation: The story highlights how Gemma's family comes together during a tough time, showing the importance of a supportive family network.
Real-World Application: This lesson encourages children to rely on and contribute to their family’s support system during challenging times, fostering a nurturing home environment.
Example Lesson: Resilience in the face of adversity
Explanation: As Gemma navigates her grief, she learns to find strength and continue with her daily life, demonstrating resilience.
Real-World Application: This teaches children that, despite difficult life events, strength and perseverance can guide them through, preparing them for personal challenges in their future.