This is My Body - I Get To Choose: An Introduction to Consent
#1 of 3 in Little Feminist Presents Series
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An anthem for all ages, This is My Body ― I Get To Choose features photographs of kids practicing consent out in the real world. Written to help families and educators teach body autonomy and consent, this rhythmic text keeps toddlers, preschoolers, and grownups alike coming back for more in an era when teaching 'my body is mine' is imperative. Complete with family discussion questions in the back matter.
Discussion points
What does it mean to give someone permission? Can you think of a time you asked for permission?
How do you feel when someone respects your choices? Why is that important to you?
What are some ways you can show respect for other people's bodies and choices?
Can you tell me about a time when you felt really listened to? How did that make you feel?
Why do you think it's important to talk about consent with friends and family?
Tip: Role play these questions
Create a safe and open environment where your child feels comfortable expressing their feelings and thoughts.
Use examples from the child’s daily life to illustrate points, making the discussion relatable and understandable.
Reinforce that it's okay to say 'no' and that their feelings and comfort matter in every situation.
Encourage your child to ask questions and express any confusion they might have about consent and personal boundaries.
Praise your child for engaging in the discussion, emphasizing the importance of this topic for their growth and safety.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Understanding consent
Explanation: The book introduces the concept of consent through relatable scenarios for children, teaching them that their body belongs to them.
Real-World Application: Children learn to express their comfort levels in different situations, effectively communicating their boundaries to peers and adults.
Example Lesson: Respecting others' boundaries
Explanation: Illustrations and dialogues in the book show instances where characters respect each other's physical space and choices.
Real-World Application: Kids can apply this by acknowledging and honoring their friends' and family members' preferences and limits in daily interactions.
Example Lesson: Empowerment in decision-making
Explanation: The story empowers children by highlighting the importance of making personal choices about their bodies and respecting those choices.
Real-World Application: This lesson encourages children to confidently make and voice their own decisions, be it at home, school, or in play.
Example Lesson: Building empathy
Explanation: Through its narrative, the book helps children understand how their actions affect others, fostering a sense of empathy.
Real-World Application: Children can practice empathy by considering how their peers feel in various situations and responding with kindness and understanding.
Example Lesson: Safe communication
Explanation: The book provides examples of how to communicate personal boundaries safely and respectfully.
Real-World Application: This enables children to engage in open conversations with adults and peers about their comfort levels and personal space, contributing to a safer environment for everyone.