Toby, Who Are You?
What’s inside...
Toby, Who Are You? is a children's book by William Steig that tells the story of a young, curious turtle named Toby. Throughout the book, Toby encounters various animals and asks them who they are, leading to a series of encounters where each animal explains their unique characteristics and behaviors. As Toby meets these creatures, he learns about diversity and the importance of self-discovery. The book is a celebration of identity and the journey to understand oneself and others. It is a tale that encourages children to explore the world around them and to embrace the question of who they are with openness and enthusiasm.
Age
4-8
Length
32 pages
Text complexity
Discussion points
What do you think Toby learned about himself by the end of the story?
How did the different animals see Toby differently? What does that tell us about perspective?
If you were Toby, how would you have reacted to meeting all those animals?
What does the story teach us about identity and who we really are?
Why do you think Toby kept asking different creatures about who he is?
Tip: Role play these questions
As you read the book with your child, emphasize Toby’s feelings and reactions to different situations to help your child understand the emotional aspect of the story.
Encourage your child to express their thoughts about what makes them unique, just like Toby discovers what makes him unique.
Use the illustrations in the book to ask your child to point out different elements that might give a clue about Toby's identity.
Relate the story to real life by discussing times when your child felt unsure about themselves and how they overcame those feelings.
After discussing the book, encourage your child to draw a picture of themselves and share what they believe makes them special.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Self-Discovery
Explanation: In 'Toby, Who Are You?', Toby interacts with multiple animals, each questioning his identity, prompting him to self-reflect.
Real-World Application: Children learn the importance of self-exploration and recognizing their unique traits and characteristics.
Example Lesson: Acceptance of Differences
Explanation: Toby's encounter with different animals teaches him to appreciate the varied traits and skills of others.
Real-World Application: This lesson encourages children to embrace diversity among peers and learn to appreciate differences rather than fear them.
Example Lesson: Curiosity and Learning
Explanation: Throughout the story, Toby’s questions and interactions showcase his curiosity about the world around him.
Real-World Application: Fosters a mindset of inquiry in children, prompting them to ask questions and seek out answers actively.
Example Lesson: Empathy
Explanation: Toby’s gentle and understanding reactions to the animals he meets demonstrate empathy.
Real-World Application: Teaches children the importance of being empathetic towards others’ feelings and viewpoints, aiding in social development.