Whose Manger Is This?
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What’s inside...
“This is my manger,” says each self-focused animal. Not-so-good behavior is shown as each one demands their way. Mary and Joseph watch as the animals experience heartfelt change. A surprise ending filled with worship and praise show what it looks like to give.
Discussion points
What do you think about the different animals you saw in the manger? Do you have a favorite?
How do you think each animal felt about sharing their space? Have you ever had to share something important with others?
Why do you think the manger was chosen as the sleeping place? Can you think of other safe and warm places?
How do the animals show care for each other in the story? Can you think of ways we can care for our friends and family?
What do you think is the main message of the story? How does it make you feel?
Tip: Role play these questions
Use expressive reading: When discussing the book, try using different voices for each animal to make the story more immersive and engaging for your child.
Relate to personal experiences: Connect themes from the book with personal experiences of sharing and caring. This can make the conversation more relatable and meaningful.
Encourage empathy: Discuss how the animals might feel in various parts of the story. This helps children develop empathy and understand different perspectives.
Follow the child's lead: Let your child pick out parts of the story or illustrations they want to talk about. This keeps them engaged and makes the conversation more enjoyable.
Pause for thoughts: After asking a question, give your child some time to think about their answer. This helps them develop their analytical and expressive skills.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Empathy and Understanding
Explanation: The story portrays various animals discussing who the manger belongs to, allowing children to see perspectives other than their own.
Real-World Application: Children can learn to consider and understand feelings and viewpoints of others, fostering empathy in real-life interactions with peers.
Example Lesson: Sharing and Cooperation
Explanation: As the animals realize the manger is for the newborn Jesus, they learn the importance of sharing what they have.
Real-World Application: Kids are encouraged to share their belongings and work cooperatively in group settings such as school or during playtime.
Example Lesson: Importance of Community
Explanation: The animals come together to welcome Jesus, showcasing the strength of a community when united.
Real-World Application: This can help children appreciate being part of community and family gatherings, understanding their role within these groups.
Example Lesson: Respect for Others’ Belongings
Explanation: The story teaches respect for property as the animals debate the ownership of the manger respectfully and peacefully.
Real-World Application: Children learn to respect others' belongings and understand the value of peaceful conflict resolution.
Example Lesson: Joy of Giving
Explanation: The animals eventually find joy in offering the manger to baby Jesus, illustrating the happiness found in giving selflessly.
Real-World Application: Encourages children to experience the joy in giving and being selfless, whether it’s sharing toys or helping family members.