Willow's Smile
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What’s inside...
"Sometimes Willow smiled without even trying. But sometimes when she wished she could and knew she should, her smile slipped straight off her face." So when her teacher tells the class that Picture Day is coming, shy Willow starts to worry. What if she isn't able to smile for the camera? How can she have her picture taken without smiling? But then on Picture Day, Willow gets the opportunity to watch the other children being photographed. She sees that all of her friends' expressions are unique, and perfect in their own way. And by the time it's her turn, she's realized that she doesn't need to worry about smiling for her picture. She just needs to be herself. In this sweet picture book, author Lana Button has created a relatable and reassuring story that offers children a terrific model for how to deal with a difficult experience in a socially and emotionally competent way. The simple illustrations by Tania Howells beautifully capture the story's focus through the range of emotions so clearly expressed by Willow and her classmates. This book provides opportunities for character lessons on self-respect, empathy and resilience. It would work for a classroom introduction to the annual ritual of Picture Day as well, a subject not often covered yet very significant to young children. It could also lead to a conversation about why we take pictures and what makes a great picture, and to activities such as making a class photo album.
Why read this book
- Boosts self-confidence through relatable character, Willow.
- Addresses social anxiety in a comforting, gentle manner.
- Encourages emotional expression and resilience among young readers.
- Warmly illustrated, enhancing connection and understanding.
Discussion points
How do you think Willow felt when she was trying to smile for the camera? Can you relate to her feelings?
What are some ways Willow tried to make her smile better? Have you ever tried something similar?
Why do you think Willow's friends helped her with her smile? How do friends help us in real life?
What does this story teach us about being ourselves?
How did you feel at the end of the story when Willow smiled her own smile?
Tip: Role play these questions
Show genuine interest in your child’s responses, and share your own feelings about Willow's experiences to deepen the connection.
Encourage your child to think about times they have felt similar to Willow, promoting empathy and self-reflection.
Discuss the importance of friends and how they can help us overcome challenges, drawing parallels to your child’s life.
Highlight the message of self-acceptance in the book, asking your child what they love most about themselves.
Praise your child for unique insights or connections they make about the story, fostering confidence and critical thinking.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Self-acceptance
Explanation: Willow struggles with smiling on command during picture day, which teaches children that it's okay to feel uncomfortable in certain situations.
Real-World Application: Children learn that embracing their natural reactions and feelings is important, encouraging them to accept themselves as they are in various everyday scenarios.
Example Lesson: Courage to face fears
Explanation: Willow faces her fear of not being able to smile on demand, showing determination and bravery.
Real-World Application: This illustrates the importance of confronting personal challenges, whether it's speaking in public or trying out for a sports team, encouraging resilience.
Example Lesson: Supportive friendships
Explanation: Willow’s friends offer kind words and support, which helps her overcome her anxiety.
Real-World Application: Children are taught the value of friendship and empathy, learning how offering support can positively impact others' lives.
Example Lesson: Expressing true emotions
Explanation: The book portrays that it's more meaningful to express genuine emotions than to put on a facade.
Real-World Application: This guides children to value and express their true feelings in interactions, rather than hiding behind what they think is expected of them.
Example Lesson: Trying different approaches to solve problems
Explanation: Willow experiments with various ways to make herself smile, showing problem-solving skills.
Real-World Application: Children learn to think creatively and try different solutions when they face difficulties, which is applicable in tasks at school or in personal challenges.