Words Between Us
What’s inside...
From Angela Pham Krans (Finding Papa) and Dung Ho (New York Times bestselling illustrator of Eyes That Kiss in the Corners) comes a poignant picture book that tenderly portrays the intergenerational bond between a boy named Felix and his grandma that’s cemented over food—and flash cards—when Grandma comes to live with Felix’s family from Vietnam. Perfect for fans of Drawn Together. Felix and Grandma have always lived oceans apart—until the day Grandma arrives. Felix is so excited to meet Grandma and spend time with her. Except she doesn’t know English! And he doesn’t know much Vietnamese! But maybe they can connect in other ways—like over their shared love of pizza. One day, when Grandma gets lost and doesn’t know how to ask for help, Felix decides to teach her English. And by working together and teaching each other, they just might learn to share words as well. This tender and heartwarming story from Angela Pham Krans and Dung Ho shows how love transcends language and how food and flashcards can bring family together.
Discussion points
What did you think about the way the characters communicated? How do you talk to your friends when you’re happy or sad?
In the story, what did the main character learn about understanding others? Can you think of a time when you learned something similar?
How do we see the characters change from the beginning to the end of the book? Why do you think those changes happened?
What would you have done if you were in the main character's situation?
What are some ways you can help a friend who is feeling misunderstood?
Tip: Role play these questions
Encourage children to express their thoughts and emotions about the story. Listen attentively to their responses and validate their feelings.
Relate the themes of the book to real-life scenarios your child might encounter, such as dealing with misunderstandings with friends or family.
Allow children to ask their own questions about the story and explore the answers together, fostering a sense of curiosity.
Highlight the importance of empathy and understanding in communication, prompting your child to consider different perspectives.
Discuss the characters' actions and decisions, and ask your child how they might have acted differently, encouraging critical thinking and problem-solving.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: The importance of communication
Explanation: In 'Words Between Us', characters navigate misunderstandings and learn the power of expressing thoughts clearly.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this by learning to share their feelings and thoughts openly with friends and family to strengthen their relationships.
Example Lesson: Empathy and understanding
Explanation: The story showcases characters who learn to put themselves in others' shoes, understanding different perspectives.
Real-World Application: This encourages children to consider how others feel before acting, promoting a more empathetic approach in their interactions.
Example Lesson: Resilience through challenges
Explanation: Characters face obstacles that they overcome by staying determined and hopeful.
Real-World Application: Children can be inspired to persist through their own difficulties, be it in schoolwork or personal relationships, understanding that perseverance leads to growth.
Example Lesson: The value of friendship
Explanation: The book highlights strong bonds between characters that help them face life's challenges together.
Real-World Application: This teaches children the importance of building and maintaining friendships, showing how mutual support can provide strength during tough times.
Example Lesson: Acceptance of diversity
Explanation: Diverse characters in the book learn to celebrate their differences, promoting inclusivity.
Real-World Application: Children can learn to appreciate the diverse cultures and backgrounds of people around them, enhancing social harmony and integration.