You Matter to Me
What’s inside...
In this picture book written by Doyin Richards and illustrated by Robert Paul Jr., 'You Matter to Me', a dog named Biscuit shares his experiences of walking with his Black owner and the different reactions they face from people in their neighborhood. Narrated by Biscuit, the book delves into the topic of racism and the various forms of prejudice his owner encounters. Through gentle and honest storytelling, the book encourages discussions about racism, highlighting the importance of love and respect for every individual. It is recommended for homes, schools, and libraries as a vital conversation starter about recognizing and valuing every person.
Age
4-8
Length
32 pages
Text complexity
Character compass
The Narrator'S Father
Child
Discussion points
What does the title 'You Matter to Me' mean to you?
How do you think the characters in the book show that they care for each other?
Can you think of a time when someone made you feel important? How did it make you feel?
Why is it important to let others know that they matter to us?
How can you show your friends or family that they matter to you?
Tip: Role play these questions
Start the conversation with a personal anecdote, sharing a moment when you felt that you mattered to someone.
Use examples from the book to discuss the importance of empathy and kindness.
Encourage your child to express their feelings and thoughts, validating them as they share.
Make connections to real-life situations where your child can relate to the characters' emotions and actions.
After reading, apply the book's themes in daily life by performing small acts of kindness as a family.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Empathy and Understanding
Explanation: The storyline of 'You Matter to Me' revolves around characters who show compassion and understanding towards each other, promoting a message of empathy.
Real-World Application: Children can apply this lesson by being considerate and mindful of others’ feelings and perspectives in their interactions at school or in the playground.
Example Lesson: Importance of Supportive Relationships
Explanation: The book illustrates how friendships and supportive relationships are vital, as characters help each other through various challenges.
Real-World Application: This lesson encourages children to be supportive peers, helping friends with schoolwork or providing comfort in difficult times.
Example Lesson: Self-Worth and Confidence
Explanation: Characters in 'You Matter to Me' demonstrate self-worth by making positive choices and standing up for themselves, which bolsters their confidence.
Real-World Application: Children learn to value themselves and can confidently make decisions and express their opinions in class discussions or group activities.
Example Lesson: Inclusivity and Acceptance
Explanation: The book portrays a diverse set of characters accepting each other’s differences, thereby teaching inclusivity.
Real-World Application: This teaches children to embrace diversity in their communities, learning to accept and celebrate differences in culture, ability, and appearance.
Example Lesson: Communicating Feelings
Explanation: Throughout the book, characters express their emotions clearly and respectfully, providing a model for effective communication.
Real-World Application: Kids are encouraged to openly communicate their feelings with family or friends, which can lead to stronger relationships and emotional health.