How Do I Love You?
What’s inside...
Counts the ways in which a child can be loved, from one to twenty and more. A heart-warming picture book. From little muddy feet to chocolate cheeks to favorite silly dances, there are many reasons to love -- and there are even more ways to express love. Celebrate the bond between parents and children in this sweet and playful counting book that will have you loving upside down, right side up, and every way in between.
Series reading
Non-Sequential
Age
3-6
Length
32 pages
Text complexity
Discussion points
What are some ways the book shows love? Can you think of other ways we show love to each other?
How does it make you feel when you see the characters caring for each other?
Why do you think it is important to show love?
What are some things we do together that make you feel loved?
Can you think of a time when you felt really loved? What happened?
Tip: Role play these questions
Start by asking your child how they felt about the book and what their favorite part was, to get them thinking about the story. Use examples from the book to relate to real-life situations of love and care in your family's daily life. Encourage your child to express their feelings and thoughts about the book’s theme by sharing your own feelings about loving and being loved. Praise your child for their insights and contributions to the discussion to make them feel valued and heard. Tie the discussions back to the book’s illustrations and text to reinforce the connections between the book's message and your child’s experiences.
Key lessons
Example Lesson: Expression of Unconditional Love
Explanation: The book uses rhythmic verses to explore how a parent's love is constant and unwavering, no matter the circumstances.
Real-World Application: Children can learn to express love and affection openly and reassure those they care about with consistent, loving actions and words.
Example Lesson: Acceptance of Individuality
Explanation: The narrative highlights that love is also about accepting and cherishing someone for who they are, including all their unique traits.
Real-World Application: This can encourage children to appreciate and embrace the differences in themselves and others, fostering a sense of inclusivity.
Example Lesson: Importance of Emotional Expression
Explanation: The story demonstrates that expressing emotions is a natural and important part of relationships.
Real-World Application: Children can learn to communicate their feelings more effectively, which is a crucial skill for emotional development and interpersonal relationships.
Example Lesson: Resilience in Love
Explanation: The book conveys that love remains strong despite challenges and changes, which can sometimes be tough or unexpected.
Real-World Application: This lesson can help children understand the concept of enduring affection and loyalty, which can aid them in developing stable, lasting relationships.
Example Lesson: Joy in Simple Moments
Explanation: Through its illustrations and text, the book shows joy in everyday moments shared between parent and child.
Real-World Application: Children can learn to find happiness in the simple, everyday interactions and understand that joy doesn't only come from grand gestures or material possessions.